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LaDonna Lorraine
Lovett
May 15, 1961 — Aug 20, 2026
LaDonna Lorraine Lovett passed away on the evening of August 20, 2026, in Los Angeles,
California, following a difficult respiratory illness. In her final moments, she was surrounded by
compassionate care and comfort.
Her passing marked the end of a life filled with many chapters—some beautiful, some difficult,
and all uniquely hers. Rather than focusing on the circumstances of her final days, we choose to
remember LaDonna for the woman she was, the life she lived, the people she loved, and the
many people who came to love her.
May she now be at rest, free from pain and surrounded by peace where she can hear the ocean
waves and watch the sun rise.
Her Beginnings
LaDonna Lorraine Lovett was born on May 15, 1961, in Denver, Colorado, to Roger L. Lovett,
originally from Iowa, and Ann Patricia Easton, of Colorado.
Her name, LaDonna, comes from the Italian phrase la donna, meaning “the woman.” Her life
was as unique and complex as the woman she became—filled with love, hardship, resilience,
beauty, and many different chapters.
LaDonna and her sister, Lorrie, were born in Denver, Colorado, and shared their childhood and
school years together. LaDonna's mother, Ann Patricia, was only part of her life during her first
year.
Their father, Roger, eventually moved to California, where LaDonna's younger sister, Jacque
Gerlits-Beckman, was born to another mother. Jacque and her mother later moved to Kansas.
Though the sisters' lives took different paths, Lorrie remained a close sister to LaDonna, and
Jacque became an important part of her family story.
Following in Her Father's Footsteps
LaDonna's father, Roger, was a barber, and his profession became part of the family's story.
Following in her father's footsteps, LaDonna attended barber school and earned her own barber's
license from the California Board of Barbering and Cosmetology, which she held for several
decades. Her career carried forward a skill and tradition that began with her father.
The Woman She Was
LaDonna was a beautiful woman with blonde hair, blue eyes, a big smile, and long legs. She had
a distinctive presence and a beauty that people remembered.
She loved the ocean and loved being near the beach. There was something about the water and
the coastline that drew her in and gave her a sense of freedom and peace.
In her twenties, LaDonna became a mother for the first time. Motherhood became an important
chapter of her life, and she eventually became the mother of five children—three daughters and
two sons.
A Life of Challenges and Resilience
LaDonna's life was not without hardship. She experienced seasons of chronic homelessness,
mental illness, addiction, and abusive relationships. There were times when she lived without the
stability, safety, and support that every person deserves.
Much of what she endured, she faced largely on her own.
LaDonna made many different choices throughout her life, and at times she chose a wandering
and unconventional way of living, seeking freedom and movement outside of a traditional
lifestyle.
Her story, however, cannot be told only through the hardships she experienced.
LaDonna had a beautiful heart in many ways. Her hugs were the best kind of hugs. My mom
enjoyed to do her hair, wear make up and wear perfume. When she hugged you she wouldn’t let
go.
She could speak kindly about the people around her, see goodness in others, and persevere
through circumstances that would have broken many people.
At the same time, some of the choices she made caused deep pain and suffering for the people
who needed her most—especially her children. That pain is real, and it has made it difficult for
some who loved her to reconcile the woman they knew with the woman they wished she could
have been.
LaDonna was not perfect, and her life was not easy or simple. She made choices that had
consequences while also carrying wounds and facing struggles of her own.
To remember LaDonna honestly is to hold all of her story. Her life deserves to be remembered
not only for the things she did right, and not only for the things that went wrong, but for the
whole woman she was.
The Motorcycle Accident and Years of Care
Before the COVID-19 pandemic, LaDonna was involved in a serious motorcycle accident.
During that emergency, a paramedic saved her life by placing a tracheostomy tube.
LaDonna lived with that tracheostomy for nearly ten years.
During those years, she was cared for by dedicated caregivers, nurses, and facility staff who
came to know and love her. They cared for more than her medical needs—they cared for her.
They would buy her makeup, decorate her space with balloons for her birthday, and find ways to
make her feel special and celebrated.
The people who cared for LaDonna spoke of her with genuine affection. They enjoyed working
with her and became part of her life.
When they learned of her passing, they cried.
They had not simply lost someone they cared for. They had lost someone they had come to love.
For nearly ten years, LaDonna was surrounded by people who saw her, knew her, cared for her,
and loved her. That, too, is part of her legacy.
The Things She Enjoyed
LaDonna enjoyed Elvis Presley, her favorite music artist. She used to have a Velvet Elvis framed
over her bed!
Her comfort movie was Titanic, she could watch it over and over again.
She enjoyed a good cheeseburger ��
Her daughter remembers her joy for cooking, especially corned beef and cabbage soup.
In her final years, LaDonna was unable to eat anything by mouth for several years. Yet those
who loved her can hold onto a lighter thought—that perhaps there is a cheeseburger waiting for
her in heaven.
Her Children and Family
LaDonna was the mother of five children—three daughters and two sons:
LA Donna, her oldest daughter
Tiffany, daughter
Melissa, daughter
Timothy, Tiffany's twin
Michael, her youngest son
LCpl Timothy Lovett preceded his mother in death. Though he is no longer here to mourn her
passing, he remains an important and beloved part of LaDonna's story and will always be
remembered as her son.
LaDonna is survived by her three daughters, little LA Donna, Tiffany, and Melissa, and her
youngest son, Michael.
She is also survived by her father, Roger L. Lovett; her sisters, Lorrie Lovett and Jacque Gerlits-
Beckman; and her two grandsons, little Timothy and baby Bear.
She is also remembered by the caregivers, nurses, and staff who cared for her daily, Marvi,
Rosana and Susana, during her final years and who came to love her dearly.
A Final Reflection
LaDonna's life was complicated, but it was also meaningful.
She experienced love and loss, freedom and hardship, motherhood and separation, illness and
resilience. She made mistakes, endured circumstances that were incredibly difficult, and left
behind both memories of love and memories of pain.
But a life cannot be measured by its hardest chapters alone.
LaDonna was a daughter, a sister, a mother, a grandmother, a barber, a woman who loved the
ocean, a lover of Elvis Presley and Titanic, a cook who enjoyed making corned beef and cabbage
soup, and a woman who loved a good cheeseburger.
She was deeply human.
May she now find the peace, freedom, and rest that were sometimes difficult to find during her
life. LaDonna accepted the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ into her heart and she believed in
God.
And perhaps, in heaven, there is an ocean nearby, Elvis playing in the background, and a
cheeseburger waiting for her. Most importantly the welcoming embrace from her heavenly
father.
There must be a cheeseburger in heaven.
Ecclesiastes 12:7
“Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was: and the spirit shall return unto God who gave
it.”
Romans 8:38–39
“For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor
things present, nor things to come,
Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God,
which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
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